Preparing for Your Boudoir Photo Shoot: 15 Tips to Shine with Confidence

A boudoir session is so much more than just taking pictures—it’s a journey. It’s about reconnecting with yourself, embracing the fullness of who you are, and allowing your soul to be seen in a way that is raw, powerful, and beautifully divine.

One of my favorite things about being your photographer is that I get to see you the way I believe God created you.. fearfully, wonderfully, and intentionally made. Every curve, every detail, every expression is a reflection of the beauty that already exists within you. My job? To hold up a mirror so you can finally see yourself in all your glory.

And as we say in the TURN UP world, this is about living authentically. This session is an opportunity to shed the layers of self-doubt, to step into the version of yourself that has always been there, waiting to be fully embraced. So here’s to opening your mind, speaking life into your spirit, and stepping boldly into your own divine energy.

Are you ready? Let’s make magic together.

1. You’ve Already Chosen the Right Photographer…Now Let’s Create Art.

Since you’re here, that means you’ve trusted Tamika LaJoyce Photography to capture your essence, and I do not take that lightly. This is a safe space for you to be bold, to be soft, to be YOU!

2. Plan Your Outfits with Intention

- Bring 3-5 outfits that make you feel powerful. Lingerie is a classic, but don’t be afraid to mix in bodysuits, silk robes, or even something as simple as an oversized button-down.

- Choose fabrics and styles that feel **good** on your skin—when you feel good, it shows.

- Accessories like stockings, garters, or a statement necklace can add the perfect finishing touch.

3. Speak Life Into Your Reflection

- Look at yourself in the mirror…not just your body, but YOURSELF!

- Say it out loud: “I AM DIVINE. I AM POWERFUL, I AM WORTHY.”

- Your mindset is the most important thing you’ll bring to this session.

4. Indulge in Self-Care

- A fresh manicure, glowing skin, and a relaxed body will have you feeling amazing.

- If you wax or shave, do it **a day or two before** to prevent irritation.

- Hydrate, stretch, and maybe even book a massage—you deserve it.

5. Nourish Yourself

- Drink plenty of water for radiant skin.

- Eat light, healthy meals before your session so you feel your best.

6. Prioritize Rest

- A well-rested body and mind will make all the difference in your energy.

7. Avoid Alcohol and Salty Foods Before Your Shoot

- They can cause bloating and dehydration. Stick to water and nourishing meals instead.

8. Bring Meaningful Props

- A silk robe, a book, a piece of jewelry… these little things can add depth to your story.

9. Share Your Vision with Me

- This is about YOU… if there’s a specific vibe you’re dreaming of, tell me.

- If you have any insecurities, I want to know. I will pose, light, and capture you in ways that highlight your natural beauty.

10. Wear Loose Clothing Before the Shoot

- Avoid marks from tight bras or leggings by wearing something soft and comfy beforehand.

11. Bring a Hype-Woman (If That Feels Right for You)

- If a trusted friend makes you feel safe and empowered, bring them along.

12. Hype Yourself Up! I’m here to hype you up as well, but the key is YOU!

- This is YOUR moment. Play your favorite music, dance in the mirror, and step into your power.

13. Choose Lingerie That Celebrates Your Body

- High-waisted panties, lace corsets, or even an elegant slip—whatever makes you feel UNSTOPPABLE.

14. Decide on Hair and Makeup

- Professional makeup can elevate your confidence (I can recommend amazing artists!).

- If doing your own, keep it polished and enhance your natural beauty.

15. Trust the Process & Enjoy Every Second

- This is not about perfection…it’s about PRESENCE. Let go, be free, and trust that you are MORE THAN ENOUGH!

Outfit Inspiration for Your Boudoir Session

Here are some ideas to inspire you:

1. Lace Lingerie Set – A classic, feminine choice.

2. Bodysuit – Flattering on every body type and effortlessly sexy.

3. Oversized Button-Down Shirt – Think effortless, just-rolled-out-of-bed beauty.

4. Corset & Garter Set – A bold, dramatic look.

5. Sheer Robe or Kimono – Adds softness, mystery, and elegance.

6. High-Waisted Panties & Bralette – A vintage-inspired, ultra-feminine vibe.

7. Sports Bra & Boy Shorts – A playful, relaxed alternative.

8. Bridal Lingerie – Perfect for wedding-inspired boudoir.

9. Stockings & Heels – Instantly elevates the look.

10. Accessories – Hats, statement jewelry, or even a book for a personal touch.

Boudoir Posing Tips (But Don’t Worry—I'll Guide You!)

1. The Side lay – Lying on your side with one leg bent is super flattering.

2. Over-the-Shoulder Glance – A sultry, playful look.

3. Sitting Pose – Sitting on a bed or chair with legs crossed or apart.

4. Standing Lean – Leaning against a wall with one leg bent.

5. Face-Down Pose – Lying face-down on a bed with your chin propped up.

6. Mirror Pose – Using a mirror for a stunning, artistic shot.

7. Close-Up Details – Focusing on hands, lips, or eyes for an intimate feel.

Step into Your Power

- Your body is art. Every curve, every detail, every expression tells a story.

- This session is about more than beauty—it’s about YOUR TRUTH.

- YOU were CREATED DIVINELY! Let’s capture that.

So let go. Open your heart. Embrace yourself exactly as you are.

I see you… NOW, it’s more than TIME for YOU TO SEE YOU TOOOOOOOOO!

Let’s create something unforgettable. Ready to book? Let’s do this!